<strong>Question</strong>:  Hi. My wife and I live an amazing fun lifestyle. I'm extremely proud of all the studs she gets while I'm still technically a virgin. Any way our first two boys are white like is and look a bit like us... But my wife was bred by BBC this time. We both find this super hot BTW... How do we tell our family? Lol.. what to say... My mom knows about us so but everyone else... We also want a second black baby too lol. We really find it hot.<p><strong>Answer</strong>: So it seems like there are two approaches here. You could lie or you could tell the truth. That seems obvious, of course, but let me dig into both.</p><p>The Truth: You could just come clean with everyone. Tell people that your wife has the freedom to sleep with other people and that she also chose one of those men to be the father of your baby. I wouldn't use the terms breeding or bred (would rub some people the wrong way).</p><p>There are some downsides to telling the truth. Some people will definitely not approve of the cuckolding lifestyle and others will <em>really</em> not approve of having her lovers get her pregnant. It could negatively impact some of the relationships in your life. It could also be just fine. I honestly have no idea what the outcome would be. </p><p>The Lie: You could also just take the easy route and lie. I think the easiest thing would be to say that you can't conceive (low sperm motility, etc) and that you chose a donor. People might think it was weird that you chose a black donor, but that doesn't really matter. You could stretch even further and say the sperm bank screwed up, but that isn't really believable.</p><p>In a way, this lie is pretty close to the truth. You did choose a donor. You just chose an atypical delivery method. You could honestly just say, "We chose a black sperm donor." The only real lie would be if you told people that you weren't able to conceive so you had to find sperm from another source.</p>